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Intimate partner violence, particularly when fueled by toxic masculinity, remains a significant issue in Indonesia, where patriarchal social norms dominate societal structures. Toxic masculinity, characterized by traits such as dominance, control, and emotional repression, serves as the foundation for violence in intimate relationships, often justified as an expression of love and care. This study aims to explore the impact of toxic masculinity on relationship violence from the perspective of victims. A qualitative phenomenological approach was employed to understand the subjective experiences of five female informants, aged 20-21, who have experienced various forms of violence—verbal, emotional, psychological, and physical—within their romantic relationships. The findings indicate that toxic masculinity is expressed through behaviors such as possessiveness, jealousy, verbal abuse, physical violence, and emotional manipulation. These behaviors are often driven by power imbalances within relationships, shaped by deeply entrenched gender norms. Hegemonic masculinity, which reinforces male dominance over women, was identified as a key factor in justifying such violence. The study emphasizes the critical need for education that challenges toxic masculinity norms and promotes gender equality to reduce the prevalence of relationship violence. The findings provide valuable insights for policy development and intervention strategies, offering recommendations for addressing gender-based violence in Indonesia and promoting a more equitable society.
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Astutik, M. W., & Payontri, R. A. (2022). The illegal racing community phenomenon: A case study of the meaning of toxic masculinity behavior in Krian. Jurnal Psikologi, 11(2), 293–303. https://doi.org/10.30872/psikostudia
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Cleghorn, L. L., Cummings, C. A., & County, K. (2024). Experiences of intimate partner violence in same-gender relationships: A study of narratives from a Caribbean context. Journal of Family Violence. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-022-00427-0
Dewi, A. E. K., & Dewi, A. D. K. (2021). Relasi perempuan dan laki-laki dalam iklan teh Sariwangi. Jurnal Audiens, 2(2), 215–226. https://doi.org/10.18196/jas.v2i2.11661
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Fauziah, S., & Atmaja, N. S. (2022). Kehilangan keluarga akibat Covid-19. Jurnal Penelitian Kesehatan Suara Forikes, 10(3), 689–693.
Fitry, Y., & Hayati, Y. (2022). Potret kekerasan dalam novel Hujan dan Teduh karya Wulan Dewatra: Kajian sosiologi sastra. Persona: Kajian Bahasa dan Sastra, 1(1).
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Jewkes, R., Morrell, R., Hearn, J., Lundqvist, E., Blackbeard, D., Lindegger, G., Quayle, M., Sikweyiya, Y., & Gottzén, L. (2015). Hegemonic masculinity: Combining theory and practice in gender interventions. Culture, Health & Sexuality, 17(Suppl. 2), S112–S127. https://doi.org/10.1080/13691058.2015.1085094
Jewkes, R., Flood, M., & Lang, J. (2022). From work with men and boys to changes of social norms and reduction of inequities in gender relations: A conceptual shift in prevention of violence against women and girls. The Lancet, 385(9977), 1580–1589. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0140-6736(14)61683-4
Khaninah, A. N., & Widjanarko, M. (2016). Perilaku agresif yang dialami korban kekerasan dalam pacaran. Jurnal Kesehatan Masyarakat (e-Journal), 15.
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Kusuma, S., Sana, G. A., Hanifah, Z. A., & Ul Hosnah, A. (2023). Tinjauan yuridis terhadap ancaman dan penganiayaan dalam suatu hubungan. Jurnal Edukasi Nonformal, 4(1).
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Rakovec-Felser, Z. (2014). Domestic violence and abuse in intimate relationship from a public health perspective. Health Psychology Research, 2(3), 1821. https://doi.org/10.4081/hpr.2014.1821
Rusyidi, B., & Hidayat, E. N. (2020). Kekerasan dalam pacaran: Faktor risiko dan pelindung serta implikasinya terhadap upaya pencegahan. Jurnal Kesejahteraan Sosial, 6.
Saleh, A. A., Nur, H., & Zainuddin, K. (2022). Studi kasus perempuan pelaku kekerasan dalam pacaran. Jurnal Psikologi Talenta Mahasiswa, 1(4).
Su, H., Iswary, E., & Kuswarini, P. (2023). Relasi gender perempuan dalam teks La Galigo-1914 (Vol. 1).
Wessells, M. G., & Kostelny, K. (2022). The psychosocial impacts of intimate partner violence against women in LMIC contexts: Toward a holistic approach. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 19(21), 14488. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph192114488
Zeha, Y. N. (2022). Representasi laki-laki dalam novel Lebih Senyap dari Bisikan karya Andina Dwifatma dan implikasinya terhadap pembelajaran sastra di SMA. UIN Syarif Hidayatullah Jakarta.
Zachra Lukietta, N., & Samatan, N. (2022). Representasi pola komunikasi keluarga dalam lagu “Bertaut” karya Nadin Amizah. Jurnal PIKMA: Publikasi Media dan Cinema, 4(2), 89–97.
